How to Get a Girl’s Attention

Getting woman to like you is both a learnt skill and an art. The nature of courting or dating is that you must make a girl or woman interested in you. Getting a girls attention is a sure way to get them to like you – if this is attention for the right reasons. In this light, this article shall give some general and specific pointers of how to get a girl’s attention.

To begin, you need to be different or stand out from the crowd. Being different does not mean you don’t have to be yourself. No instead be exactly that. We are all unique – be yourself but be bold and daring. Yes, venture where no man has gone before (and no you don’t need to be Captain Kurk to do this).

Don’t just go with the flow. Don’t be scared to embarrass yourself – and yes, you most probably will embarrass yourself often in this regard.

Secondly, be confident and secure. Women seem to have a sixth sense that picks up a man with confidence from a distance. Watch the way you present yourself – your posture, your speech and your attire are very important here. Walk up straight – speak with a commanding slow, clear voice and wear neat eye catching clothes (don’t overdo it though!). Also hair is very important – keep it neat and attractive!

Thirdly, a lot – not all – of woman like a kind hearted philanthropist. Engage in activities that involve self sacrifice and charity work. Fine – you might be doing it for self gain but this is still a win-win situation. You will firstly learn a sense of service and humility – which really grabs most woman or girls attention – and secondly you might grab their attention when they find out just how ‘selfless’ you are or are, at least, becoming.

Following from the previous point – I know this might sound a bit dishonest but there is nothing wrong with doing good works for a noble reward (a girl’s attention).

However, if you are able do these work anyway without the exact goal of gaining their attention this will be even more advantageous. Karma is a real law of the universe so when you try sincerely to do good charitable works for the sake of helping alone and not being noticed then paradoxically there is a good chance that the wheel of Karma (or your Higher Power) will return the favor.

Walk dogs, volunteer at orphanages. Trust me it might seem devious but my research has shown it is quite effective in getting girls attention.

Getting women to like you is not as difficult as you might think. Be likable. What do you like in a woman? Do you like a generous, soft hearted and attractive female? Well then be a handsome, soft hearted and attractive male.

Do you like a funny girl? Well be funny. Display likable qualities and you will get a woman to like you – this is almost a guarantee.

Lastly, find out what you are good at (if you don’t already know). Then do these things. There is no point in hiding your talents from the world.

Let your light shine and then girls will have a much greater chance of noticing you. Let them be drawn to your talents or strengths.

Don’t be too shy to display your greatness – don’t be scared to display your skill (whatever it is). Yes – be modest and humble but don’t be a fool – if you are good at something admit and display it. By doing so you might find that you will draw more than one too you. By doing what you do well you can get a girls attention.